The Inner Persecutor

The origins and nature of an inner persecutor is  unique to  the individual.  This post continues to examine  what may result when the primary caretakers  / parents of a child  reverse the roles, so that the child becomes responsible for the well being of the parent and therefore made to feel selfish and destructive if […]

Raging Against Our Neediness

When dependency needs in childhood are denied, the child is made ashamed of his/her own needs repeatedly…   The rage he/she feels towards the neglectful parents is used to repress the neediness about which now even he/she has grown intolerant.   So the aggressive energies of the psyche are turned back upon the dependent aspects […]

On The WayTo Knowing But Not Close.

Protecting The Egg When we  allow  inner  change  to  happen we  evoke a  generative phase  in which we feel  unprotected and vulnerable.   Our  shell  is still soft and pliable .This is a inevitable  stage of growth , for change for development. But how do we take care of this  barely hatched  portion of our […]